Alpha Kappa Alpha Sorority, Theta Theta Omega Chapter "Tea Rose Talk" newsletters

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TEA ROSE TALK IS PUBLISHED BY AND FOR
THETA THETA OMEGA CHAPTER
OF
ALPHA KAPPA ALPHA SORORITY
LAS VEGAS, NEVADA
EDITOR: MARIAN D. BURNS
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NEW BEGINNINGS.
over you and keep you during your period of grieving. If there is ever anything I can do or the chapter can do, please do not hesitate to call.
THE BASILEUS
SPEAKS.........
WELCOME BACK ALL
SORORS
I hope that each of you had a safe, enjoyable, well rested summer. “Well- Rested” was added because we sorors Alpha Kappa Alpha sorority has “our work” cut out for us for the upcoming calendar year.
Sustaining Theta Theta Omega Chapter is and should be our greatest desire. In order to do so, we must bond together to become the fearless sorors that we have been trained to be; stand strong for each other and our sorority. Stay focused with positive energy for the good things we want to acccomplish as a sorority. We can accomplish all of the goals that we as a chapter has and will be setting. Theta Theta Omega Chapter in the year 2000 will make a powerful difference in our community
I would like to extend on behalf of Theta Theta Omega and myself condolences to all sorors who have experienced the loss of a loved one. It is such a trying time. Please take comfort in the Lord. He will watch
Volume 2- Issue 14 September 1999
Elections are coming! Elections are coming! Elections are coming! The following offices are open for the 2000-2002 period: Anti-Basileus, Anti-Grammateus, Tamiochous, Philacter, Graduate Advisor and one Executive Committee Member at Large. A slate will be presented at the October meeting. Nominations from the floor will also be taken at the October meeting. The voting will take place at the November member. We will have the Officer installation ceremony at the December meeting. Although Parlimentarian is listed in our By-laws as an elected position, in order to remain in line with International Sorority policy it will be an appointed position.
The retreat was relaxing, fun, informative, and educational. I had the best time. I wish more sorors could have come to this worthwhile event. The retreat will be planned again for August 2000. Please set this time aside. We will use the retreat to set chapter goals and to develop the program calendar for the next year.
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Come be a part of the process. We need your help. The program activities that were developed for 2000 will be presented at the Chapter meeting in October. We will also present the chapter goals at that time. We want everyone to be a part of this important process, so come with us next year for some relaxation, fun, information, and education!
Plans are underway to develop a Chapter Brochure. 1 am requesting input on this project. What would you like to see in the brochure? I draft copy will be presented at either the October of November meeting. I hope to have it completed before the end of the year.
Sorors, We need all pictures of any sorority events that have taken place since the last Regional Conference. I will bring bags to put the items in and than they will be stored in a large box waiting for the scrapbook committee to cut them up and paste them down (smile) The committee is looking for pictures, tickets, brochures, flyers, etc. Help us to create the best scrapbook. We also need more members on this committee.
Committee sign up will begin in October. Please make sure you are signing up for at least one committee. There is lots of work to be done.
These committees will begin work in the year 2000. We will also present a sign up sheet for the meeting hostesses and executive committee hostess. Remember this is for the year 2000. We need this information early so the Program Book can be put together in a timely manner.
Chapter dues are due and payable for the 2000 calendar year. Avoid the crowds and pay early. The chapter tax and per capita tax will be sent to the International office no later than January 20, 1999. There will be no exceptions. Dues paid after this time will include the 10% late fee.
MESSAGE TO ALL COMMITTEE CHAIRS,
PLEASE send all Budget requests to Soror Carolyn Parks. Soror Carolyn needs your requests this month so the Budget Committee can present a Budget for the year 2000 at the Cctober sorority meeting.
Sorors don’t wait to submit your requests, you could miss out !!! Be prepared to give them to Soror Carolyn at the next meeting if possible.
Sisterly,
Soror Jackie Hall Baslieus
WORDS FROM THE EDITOR....
IS ALPHA KAPPA ALPHA SORORITY, INCORPORATED ‘AKA Y2-K” COMPLIANT ? Did you know that we are less than 122 days from the dawning of a new millennium?
IS THETA THETA OMEGA CHAPTER“LEADERSHIP PREPARED” FOR THE YEAR 2000?
As a general rule, I write a personal article each month. However, I will not bore my “sisters” this month. BET, like Freddy Kruger, “you will say, “SHE’S BACKkkkkkkk”.
Just good stuff...Okay?
On August 5, 1999, Soror Willa L. White showed that “I” can become “Us”. Forty-two sorors and personal friends, renewed our friendship with a WONDERFUL, SUCCESSFUL, “AKA SUMMER COOLER” held at the home of Soror Willa L.White. In attendance were Sorors: Penny Toney, Billie Knight Rayford, Carolyn Parks, Lavonne Lewis, Patti Hester, Sandra Stewart-Bass, Amanda McWilliams, Valerie Lucas, Jackie Brown, Sharon Savage, Sylvia Speed, Dorothy Newman, Jackie Dawson, Beverly Winston, Annette Craghead, Celese Rayford, Marian Burns, Thais Baccus, Barbara Lebron, Janet Rhoden, Dorothy Earle, Lillian Gates, Kaweeda Adams, Shirnice Villano,
Ina Dorman, Ouida Brown, Lois Bolden, Lois T. Ice, Helen Jenkins, Wilhelmina Lee, Edna States, Betty Thomas-Orr, Belisa Brownlee, Rhoda Anderson, Jennifer Jackson, Mildred Harrison, Grace (Mildred’s sister), our Hostesses, Willa L. White, Marlyn (Meady) Goins, & Dr. Ruth L. Green (Ruth Carmen).
Kudos to Soror Angie Armstrong that arrived the next day (9/6/99) looking for a Summer Cooler. Of course, she was entertained by Sorors Willa, Ruth Carmen & Meady.
Our hats and our heart goes out to every Soror that participated by bringing the delicious food items. A BIG hat goes out to Soror Lillian Gates for the “Coconut cake to die for”. It was spectular...
To those sorors that did not attend, you missed a perfect evening of friendship, food, games, and love. Love the old fashioned AKA way.
On Saturday, August 28, 1999, Retired School Psychologist, Soror Willa L. White, challenged each soror attending Theta Theta Omega Chapter’s Summer Retreat that was held on the weekend of August 27- 29th at the Flamingo Hilton Hotel in Laughlin, Nevada, to HARNESS and USE the talents of every soror in AKA. To be prepared to furiously reposition ourselves for the upcoming millennium in order to deliver better service to our sorority, our community and mankind. Our workshops began with “You are here on a purpose”. Soror Willa reminded us that “ As sorors, each of us have lessons to
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learn, work to do, talents and gifts to give”. With a wonderful introduction with each soror introducing herself with a “positive” adjective we were “off & running”. We were taught how to constructively set sorority Goals, how to structure a sorority yearly calendar utilitizing and implementing these goals, how to “realign” your attitude with an attitude adjustment, Soror Willa reminded us that our sorority is a “We” not an “I” sorority and whatever shows up in our daily lives is a gift, use it and IT’S ALL GOOD. Every soror had to participate in every facet of the workshop. Soror Willa ended her workshop with a message to each of us that “we are the Sorors whose faith and love of the sorority has sustained us thus far. We are the “I am because We are”. We are the women of Alpha Kappa Alpha Sorority. The FIRST and the FINEST”. Our Retreat was wrapped up on Sunday morning with Open devotion for everyone . Thanking the Holy Spirit for his Blessings and reminding us that God’s instructions to us are everywhere if only we tune our ears and open our hearts.
Soror in attendance were: “Wishful Wilhelmina Lee, Positive-Punctual Patti Hester, Marvelous Marian Burns, Lovely Lavonne Lewis, Jolly Jackie Hall, Beautiful Barbara Lebron, Bouncing Billie Knight Rayford, Invigorating Ina Dorman, Crafty Carolyn Parks, Pleasant Penny Toney, Nice Nicole Harvey, Super Stacey Hardy-Desmond and Wonderful Willa White..
Honey-Do’s attending were: Dr. Lee Rayford, Dwight Dorman, Pitt Burns, & Hershel Parks.
Guest attending: Millie Blanford, Verneta Reed, Jamie Hawkins, Jim & Gladys Hunt.
For all sorors not attending, You definitely missed the Retreat of a life time. Plenty of Fun, Movies on the Bus, Hospitality Room & Treats, Excellent show, delightful & delicious food.
Next month, I will return with more on Y2-K and AKA.
We are the Vine that Binds!!
Yours in Sisterhood,
Soror Marian Burns
“WHAT IF I AM A BLACK WOMAN”
Is it a Disease? Weil, if it is, I sure hope it’s catching because they need to pour it into a bottle, label it, and sprinkle it all over the people, Men & Women who ever loved or cried, worked or died, for any one of us.
So..What If 1 Am A Black Woman? Is it a crime? Arrest me ! Because I’m strong, but I am gentle. I am smart, but 1 am learning, I am loving, but I am hateful. And I like to work because I like to eat and feed and clothe, and house me, mine and yours,
and everybody’s, like I’ve been doing for the past 300 years.
So..What If I am A Black Woman? Is it insane? Commit me! Because I want the happiness, not tears, truth, not lies; pleasure not pain; sunshine, not rain; a man, not a child!
So..What If 1 Am A Black Woman? Is it a sin? Pray for me! And pray for you too. If you don’t like women of Color because we are Midnight Black, Chestnut, Brown, Honey Bronzed, Chocolate Covered, Coca Dipped, Big Lipped, Big Hipped, Big Breasted, And Beautiful All At The Same Time !
So..What If I Am A Black Woman? Does it bother you that much?
Because I want a man who wants me, loves me, and trusts me, respects me, and gives me everything I give him Everything Back, Plus !
So..What If I Am A Black Woman? I’ve got Rights, same as you! 1 have worked for them, died for them, lied for them, played and laid for them, on Every Plantation from Alabama to Boston and Back !
So..What If I Am A Black Woman? I Love Me, and I Want You to Love Me Too, but I am, as I’ve always been, Near You, Close to You, Beside You, Strong, Giving, Loving, for over 300 years, Your Black Woman Love Me !
(Author Unknown
MEMBERSHIP INTAKE PROCESS (MIP)
Sorors, The Membership Committee chairs would like to remind each of you that Membership Intake Process will be held: October 15 - 17, 1999 (Friday, Saturday, & Sunday).
To date, we have seven tentative candidates and Membership is awaiting approval from Regional.
Place: Amerisuites Hotel Date: October 15-71,1999 Time: 7:00 P.M.
Room Rates: $59.00 per person (Continential Breakfast, Saturday & Sunday)
Lunch - Saturday - (Catered in amount will be given at Sorority meeting)
Lunch - Sunday - Landry’s Restaurant (Across from the Palace Station Hotel & Casino) - $21.50 per person.
Private room setting with 5 menu items to choose from.
PLEASE BE PREPARED TO PAY A DEPOSIT FOR YOUR ROOM & FOR YOUR MEAL( IF YOU PLAN TO STAY AT THE HOTEL & HAVE LUNCH ON SUNDAY) AT SORORITY MEETING.
refrain from large or elaborate earrings and other jewelry.
ATTIRE FOR MEMBERSHIP INTAKE PROCESS..
This information is taken directly from the New Membership Intake Program Booklet.
FRIDAY NIGHT ORIENTATION
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Candidates wear conservative BLACK dress or suit
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Sorors wear conservative WHITE dress or suit
SATURDAY MORNING PLEDGE CERMONIES
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Candidates wear conservative BLACK dress of suit
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Sorors wear conservative WHITE dress or suit
SATURDAY WORKSHOPS
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Candidates and Sorors wear comfortable BUSINESS attire (absolutely no jeans, sweats, and/or tennis shoes
SATURDAY NIGHT INITIATION
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Candidates wear BLACK (first degree; WHITE all other degrees
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Sorors wear WHITE
SUNDAY MORNING FINAL VOWS
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Candidates and Sorors wear white (no hats or large jewelry)
Identical clothing is NOT to be required. Pants and Hats ARE NOT acceptable attire. Any colored accessories should be tasteful. Please
REMINDERS.....
Anti-Basileus, Soror Ina Dorman would like to remind Sorors of our Program Targets...Let’s work for AKA !!
PROGRAM TARGETS
AUGUST - TARGET - Global Dollar Days - Education
Activity - Economic Seminar (Soror Billie K. Rayford)
SEPTEMBER-TARGET- Black Family - Sisterly Relations Activity - Golden Senior Month Activity - Reactivation Activity
OCTOBER - TARGET - Membership - Black Family Activity - Intake Activity - Coat Drive
NOVEMBER - TARGET - Black Family - Health
Activity - Collecting & Donating Car Sets for safety
Activity - Thanksgiving Baskets
DECEMBER - TARGET - Sisterly Relations — ON TRACK (National Signature Program) Activity - Secret Soror
Activity - AKAcademy (Mentor student 3-6 grade)
MINI WORKSHOP - HODEGOS
DUTIES - DO’S & DON’T’S
FACILITATOR: SOROR BILLIE KNIGHT RAYFORD
Alpha Kappa Alpha Sorority, Inc. Theta Theta Omega Chapter Hodegos Report - September 1999
HOSTESS CALENDAR
REGULAR MEETING
September 11, 1999
Marian Burns Barbara LeBron Wilhemina Lee Carolyn Parks
October 2, 1999
Lisa McNeil
Amanda McWilliams
Tonya Flanagan
November 6, 1999
Lois Bolden Ouida Brown Francis Perry Billie Rayford Celese Rayford
EXECUTIVE MEETING
September 22, 1999
Edna States
October 20, 1999
Ina Dorman
November 17, 1999
Rhoda Anderson
BIRTHDAYS
July
7/16
Tiffany Stevenson
7/19
Velicia McMillan-Lewis
7/20
Tanya Flanagan
7/23
Ouida Brown
7/31
Sandra Stewart-Bass
August
8/6
Denell Hoggard
8/10
Gwendolyn Gates-Bartlett
8/13
Jacqueline Hall
8/15
Evelyn Rose Coker
8/18
Dorothy Johnson
8/23
Willa White
September
9/3
Belisa Brownlee
9/3
Billie Rayford
9/20
Dorothy Earle
9/21
Lea Alves
9/25
E. Lavonne Lewis
9/28
Elizabeth Sheffield
9/28
Betty Thomas-Orr
ANNIVERSARIES
September
9/19 William & Janet Rhoden
9/27 Eric & Velicia Lewis
9/30 Denell & Honey Do Hoggard
ON THE MEND
Christopher Parks, son of Hershel and Soror Carolyn Parks is recovering nicely from surgery
WELCOME SORORS
Theta Theta Omega extends a warm welcome to the following sorors:
Erica Etienne Celese Rayford
Jessica Graham Penny Toney
Marianne Lewis
IN MEMORY
We extend our heartfelt sympathy and prayers to the families of our sorors on the passing of their loved ones:
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Soror Lea Alves' uncle passed away in June.
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Soror Jack! Brown's mother-in-law, Ouida Somersall Brown, was laid to rest on September 2, 1999.
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Memorial services we re held for Mrs Mildred Hazzard, mother and grandmother of Sorors Elsie and Denise Bryant, on August 28, 1999
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Soror Marian and Honey Do Pitt Burns attended the final services for his mother, Mrs Burns, in St. Petersburg, Florida in July.
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Final services for the mother of Soror Tanya Flanagan were held in Arizona in early August.
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Soror Sandra Stewart-Bass said a final farewell to her husband, Honey Do John C. Bass, on Tuesday, September 8, 1999
CONGRATULATIONS
New Home Owner - Soror Lisa Russell, 5443 Coleman Street, N. Las Vegas, NV 89031
Promotion - Soror Patti Hester is now a Teacher on Special Assignment for the Clark County School District Regional Training Center.
Directory Updates
Erica Etienne - 7163 Clearwater Circle, Las Vegas, NV 89147
Celese Rayford - 2816 N Jones Blvd , Las Vegas, NV 89108, (702)645-1105
Pendelita S. Toney - 244 Sacramento Dr., Las Vegas, NV 89110, (702) 459-9055
Yours in the Sisterhood, Soror Billie Rayford
DO YOU REMEMBER?
I can remember when 1 first became an Alpha Kappa Alpha woman and in the excitement; one day I realized everything was foreign. I didn’t know who to call for what. So, 1 am including this little article each month for NEW and OLD sorors.
“WHO DO I CALL” ?
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COMMUNICATIONS..Soror Jackie Hall, Basileus
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TO REQUEST A CHECK..Soror Carolyn Parks (648-9106)
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TO PAY DUES, MONIES..Soror Marian Burns (648-3903)
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FOR A CHANGE OF ADDRESS..Soror(s) Billie K. Rayford, (645-1105) Marian Burns (648-3903)
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NOTIFICATION OF A SOROR’S WELL BEING..Soror Billie K. Rayford (645-1105)
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NOTIFICATION OF A DEATH OF A SOROR, AND/OR FAMILY MEMBER..Soror Billie K.
Rayford (645-1105)
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INFORMATION FOR THE NEWSLETTER..Soror Marian Burns(648-3903)
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AKA CONNECTIONS..Soror Willa L. White (896-4282)
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UNDERGRADUATE INFORMATION..Soror Sharon Savage(254-4156)
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TELEPHONE TREE..Soror Billie K. Rayford (645-1105)
Sorors I ask that you please call me, email, come to see me, or whatever, with your information for the newsletter as soon as you know what you are inputting. 1 will dress it up if
you just give me a hint as to what you want.
MEMBERSHIP MINI-REPORT Soror Carolyn Parks
The Membership Committee met at the home of Soror Dorothy Earle on 9-4-99 at 11 am.
Committee assignments were made and a sign up sheet will be passed around at the September General Meeting for other Sorors to sign up for the Resource Committees for Membership Intake.
Sunday's MIP Luncheon will be held at Landrys Restaurant at a cost of $21.50 per person which will include your choice of five entrees.
Our intake will take place at the AmeriSuites Hotel, 4520 S. Paradise at a cost of $59 per night including tax and a continental breakfast.
Please be prepared to pay a deposit to hold your room.
Paperwork for seven candidates will be mailed to Soror Grace was approval.
Our summer cooler was held August 5, 1999 with approximately 45 sorors in attendance. A good time was had by all.
Our retreat to Laughlin 8/27-29/99 was a great success with approximate 14 sorors in attendance and 9 guests. We look forward to doing this again next year. A recap of this event will be shared with all sorors that were not in attendance.
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SECRET SORORS ARE REALLY, REALLY, “WITH THE PLAN”
Soror Carolyn would like to Thank her Secret Soror for the Beautiful Roses she received this past month.
Soror Willa sends a Big Thank you to her Secret Soror for the Llado porcelain piece she received for her birthday.
Soror Edna also sends a Big Thank You to her Secret Soror, who has been most kind, thoughtful & generous.
Soror Billie would like to remind all sorors participating in the Secret Soror Project to “Remember your Secret Soror” each month with something, if it’s just a card.
SORORITY MEETING: 3:00 P.M. SATURDAY, 9/11/99, ST. JAMES CATHOLIC CHURCH 1MANI HALL HOSTESSES: Sorors Carolyn Parks, Barbara Lebron, Wilhelmina Lee, Marian Burns
PERSONAL THANK YOU...
Soror Annette Craighead and her family would like to Thank every soror for your calls, cards, prayers, support and your attendance at the Celebration of Life for her Mother.
AUTHOR, ERIC JEROME DICKEY, who wrote “Milk In My Coffee” was in town for the book signing of his latest book “Cheaters” at Zaliwa Creations. Happy to say, several sorors attended the book signing sessions. Soror Sharon Savage was able to get several pictures for the sorority scrapbook.
FINANCES......Sorors with
outstanding debts from prior years are asked to please pay these debts as soon as possible or make arrangements with the Pecunious Grammateus to resolve these issues.
All sorors needing reimbursement for expenses please submit your receipts with your voucher.
HEALTH COMMITTEE REPORT
Soror Dorothy Johnson
Dear Sorors:
First, let me thank all the sorors and TTO for the birthday cards sent. 1 really appreciated them ’.
Second, This is the Health Committee September Preview Report.
I have been requested by the American Cancer Society to serve as a Coordinator for their upcoming Breat Cancer Program which will kick off, October 19, 1999.
“Tell a Friend Tuesday” is the name of the program and I am requesting at least 15 sorors sign up for this program being sponsored by the Health Committee of Theta Theta Omega Chapter..the more the merrier! This is a program that all members can participate in at no cost! It would be extremely gratifying if all members participated !
Sorors will be known as “Callers: who will call 5 female friends or family members in Nevada who are 40 or over, Record the requested data on the tracking form. Return the tracking form to me (the Team Coordinator). Complete follow-up calls 2-3 months following initial calls. Record data on follow-up form. Return follow-up form to me. As
Team Coordinator, I will Recruit Callers. Hand out calling kits prior to the event Collect the tracking forms from each caller. Get tracking form back to the American Cancer Society. Remind members about the follow-up 2-3 months following initial calling date. Collect follow-up cards and return to ACS.
Full particulars and sign-up forms will be available at the next meeting.
EVERY WOMAN SHOULD HAVE:
One old love she can imagine going back to and one who reminds her how far she has come.
Enough money within her control to move out and rent a place on her own, even if she never wants or needs to.
Something perfect to wear if the employer or date of her dreams wants to see her in an hour.
A youth she’s content to move beyond. A past juicy enough that she's looking forward to retelling it in her old age.
The realization that she is actually going to have an old age and some money set aside to help fund it.
A set of screwdrivers, a cordless drill, and a black lace bra.
One friend who always makes her laugh and one who lets her cry.
A good piece of furniture not previously owned by anyone else in her family.
Eight matching plates, wine glasses with stems, and a recipe for a meal that will make her guests feel honored.
A resume that is not even the slightest bit padded. A feeling of control over her destiny.
A skin care regime, an exercise routine, and a plan for dealing with those few other facets of life that don't get better after 30.
A solid start on a satisfying career, a satisfying relationship, and all those other facets of life that do get better.
EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW:
How to fall in love without losing herself. How she feels about having kids.
How to quit a job, break up with a lover, and confront a friend without ruining the friendship.
When to try harder and when to walk away. How to have a good time at a party she'd never choose to attend.
How to ask for what she wants in a way that makes it most likely she'll get it
That she can't change the length of her calves, the width of her hips, or the nature of her parents.
That her childhood may not have been perfect, but it's over.
What she would and wouldn't do for love or more. How to live alone, even if she doesn't like it.
Whom she can trust, whom she can't, and why she shouldn't take it personally.
Where to go - be it her best friend's kitchen table or a charming inn Hidden in the woods - when her soul needs soothing.
What she can and can't accomplish in a day, a month, and a year.
“TRUE LOVE”
SORORS:
If you love something, SET IT FREE.
If it comes back, it was, and always will be yours.
If it never returns, it was never yours to begin.
If it just SITS in your living room, MESSES up your “stuff”, EATS your food, USES your telephone, TAKES your money, And never behaves as if you actually SET IT FREE in the first place,
You either MARRIED IT..or GAVE BIRTH TO IT.
SO TRUE..BUT CONTINUE TO LOVE ANYWAY !
AND THEN THERE ARE REFLECTIONS...
The journey of a thousand miles begins with a frayed fan belt and a leaky tire.
It’s a small world. So you gotta use your elbows a lot.
No one is listening until you make a mistake.
Always remember you are unique, just like everyone else.
Never, Never test the depth of the water with both feet.
It may be that your sole purpose in life is simply to serve as a warning to others.
It is far more impressive when others discover your good qualities without your help.
If you tell the truth, you don’t have to remember anything.
If you lend someone $20, and never see that person again, it was probably well worth it.
If you haven’t much education, you must use your brain.
You cannot strengthen the weak by weakening the strong.
When someone says, “Do you want my opinion?” - it’s always a negative one.
The word listen contains the same letters as the word silent.
The difference between ordinary and extraordinary is that little extra.
Scientists say 1 out of every 4 people is crazy. So check out 3 friends..if they are OK, you’re it.
Pain and suffering are inevitable, but misery is optional.
SOROR JACQUELINE HALL 6364 - HORIZON RIDGE CT LAS VEGAS, NV 89115
TEA ROSE TALK IS PUBLISHED BY AND FOR
THETA THETA OMEGA CHAPTER
OF
ALPHA KAPPA ALPHA SORORITY
LAS VEGAS, NEVADA
EDITOR: MARIAN D. BURNS
Volume 2, Issue 10
MARCH 1999
NEW BEGINNINGS.......
THE BASILEUS SPEAKS
Dear Sorors,
I am excited to report that we have 56 financial members in Theta Theta Omega as of February 6, 1999 !!! I am so happy to see that we are retaining sorors.
The Mardi Gras Ball was a roaring success. My family members had a fantastic time. My niece (Victoria) and her boyfriend were in all likelihood the youngest people in attendance. The both of them are only eighteen years old. They said, “without a doubt, they had a fabulous time”; and they are looking forward to attending next year.
We have several programming events coming up and I would like to remind you soror to please mark these events on your calendars. The events are: Founders’ Day Luncheon, NBLIC Conference in April; the African Shoe Box Project, Scholarship Award Ceremony; Economic Seminar, Black Dollar Month; Kappa Xi Rush and Intake Weekend. It is imperative that we give full support with these programs. If you are on the committees in charge of these events, please support them by attending. We will become stronger if we stand together and support one another.
I would like to see a large number of sorors attend the Regional Conference. It will be one of the least expensive conferences in regards to transportation. Delegates receive money from the chapter that can be applied towards registration costs or transportation. The chapter is entitled to five delegates.
The Chapter Report has been mailed. The report arrived in the International Headquarters before February 1,1999. The EAF report has also been mailed. Thank You Soror Lisa McNeil for your hard work. Soror Jacki Brown has mailed in the volunteers hours also. Please sorors, keep an accurate track of your volunteer hours for 1999.
Sorors:
X J Our February Sorority meeting was different from all the others that we s.. have held. Different in that, our 0U Chaplain, Soror Barbara Kirkland, began with a prayer and an
A inspirational reading that sent a
IV - powerful message to all of us. Soror / Barbara reminded us of our obligation to each other as sisters. She also told us how important it was to show that you sincerely care. Because tomorrow is not guaranteed to us as it was with the case of Soror Janice Clark that has gone beyond the Ivy Wall. (Soror Janice became an Alpha Kappa Alpha woman in October 1998).
We shared our silence and sorrow for our sister, Soror Janice and for her family.
As Pope Leo XHI stated, “No one is so rich that he does not need another’s help; no one so poor as not to be useful in some way to his fellow man”.
‘braying’ -or- whatever mules do when they fall into wells. After carefully assessing the situation, the farmer sympathized with the mule, but decided that neither the mule nor the well was worth the trouble of saving. Instead, he called his neighbors together and told them what had happened and enlisted them to help haul dirt to bury the old mule in the well and put him out his misery.
Initially, the old mule was hysterical ’.!!! But as the farmer and his neighbors continued shoveling and the dirt hit his back..A thought struck him. It suddenly dawned on him that every time a shovel load of dirt landed on his back..HE SHOULD SHAKE IT OFF AND STEP UP !! This he did, blow after blow.
“Shake it off and step up..Shake it off and step up..Shake it off and step up!” he repeated to encourage himself. No matter how painful the blows, or distressing the situation seemed the old mule fought “panic” and just kept right on SHAKING IT OFF AND STEPPING UP !!
You’re right! It wasn’t long before the old mule, battered and exhausted, STEPPED TRIUMPHANTLY OVER THE WALL OF THAT WELL ! What seemed like it would bury him actually blessed him..all because of the manner in which he handled his adversity.
Sisterly,
Soror Jackie Hall
We must continue to build strong sisterly relations. These relations must be based on the values that the founders of our precious sorority demonstrated to each other. Let us enjoy being sisterly. This bonding process should never end.
SHAKE IT OFF AND STEP UP
A farmer owned an old mule. The mule fell into the farmer’s well.
The farmer heard the mule
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THAT’S LIFE I If we face our problems and respond to them positively, and refuse to give in to panic, bitterness, or self-pity..THE ADVERSITIES THAT COME ALONG TO BURY US USUALLY HAVE WITHIN THEM THE POTENTIAL TO BENEFIT AND BLESS US !
Remember that FORGIVENESS - FAITH - PRAYER - PRAISE - AND HOPE...all are excellent ways to “SHAKE IT OFF AND STEP UP” out of the wells in which we find ourselves !!
Yours Sisterhood, Soror Marian Burns
MARDI GRAS
AKA MARDI GRAS
BALL WAS A
BIGgggggg
SUCCESS !!!!!
Our second annual Mardi Gras Ball was a BIG success. Soror Patti Hester chaired the Ball and her co- chair was Soror Shirley Carroll.
The Rio Suites Hotel Main Grand Ballroom was decorated and aglow with the beautiful table decorations
of Mardi Gras masks in colors of gold, purple, and green atop table mirrors (each one individually cleaned by Soror Carolyn Parks). Each table was accented with table sprinkles that matched the green, purple & gold table linen colors. There were anchored balloons that formed an arch upon entering. Special Kudos to Soror Ina Dorman that designed and made all of the decorations.
Soror Patti & Soror Shirley sends special thank-you’s to every member of the Ways & Means Committee, Honey-Do’s, Honey- Don’t’s, and personal friends that assisted with decorating. This joint effort really paid off.
In case you missed the ball, let me fill you in.....AKA Sorors and their
guest were formally welcomed to the fabulous Rio Suites Hotel and Casino Grand ballroom by the featured Star of the Masquerade In The Sky Parade, “Sonny-Do”, Brian Bywaters. Brian was “decked” out in his Royal Blue Sequin Rio Zoot Suit for his 10:00 performance. He son of our own, Soror Willa Bywaters White. AKA Sorors were introduced as we all stepped to the AKA INTERNATIONAL STROLL !!! (Led by our “High Steppers” Sorors Belissa Brownlee, Kaweeda Adams, & Jackie’ Brown). IT WAS WONDERFUL and A TON OF FUN !!
Our Mistress of Ceremony, Rose McKinney James, did an outstanding job in her introductions, reading our 3
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The Second-line Dance with Sorors leading the line spinning our Mardi Gras umbrellas was absolutely breath-taking. Our audience participation in this Grand New Orleans Style second line dance was fanastic.
(Did you happen to see the “ New Orleans Adams Family”- Kaweeda, Eric, & The Adams doing the “original” Louisiana second line dance? OH YES, IT WAS THE REAL DEAL, O.K !
The Band was great and had everyone on the floor doing the Electric Slide. They were “jamming” BIG TIME.
The food was delicious with a selection to die for , Louisiana red beans and rice, fried catfish, chicken, beef tips, Jambalaya, New Orleans style shrimp & rice, sliced & diced fruit, assorted cheeses, assorted salads, yams, corn bread, hot rolls, and of course the deliteful desserts (with all the calories removed).
The crowning moment....The Mardi Gras Royal Court Members were presented. Soror Carolyn Parks & Honey-Do Hershel; Soror Shirley Carroll & Honey-Do Leo; Soror Marian Bums & Honey-Do Pitt and Soror Billie K. Rayford & Honey-Do Lee.
Soror Billie K Rayford and her Honey Do, Dr. Lee Rayford were selected as the Alpha Kappa Alpha
Sorority 1999 Mardi Gras King and Queen. Our 1998 Queen Soror Willa Bywaters White relinquished her crown and her Royal Robe to Queen Billie K Soror Ina Dorman stood in for our deceased Beloved King, Kenny White. She crowned King Lee and draped him in his Royal Robe. Bowing to standing ovations, our new King & Queen & her Royal Court did their royal dance.
CONGRATULATIONS TO HER MAJESTY QUEEN BILLIE & KING DR. LEE RAYFORD !!!!
The Ball was enjoyed by all (in spite of the table assignment mix-ups). Sorors, pat yourselves on the back.....’’YOU DONE GOOD”.
(P.S. Soror Ina Dorman & her daughter, Soror Shirnice Dorman- Villano also designed & made the Beautiful Royal King & Queen Robes). Thanks a Bunch!
PROGRAM COMMITTEE HAS SET THE CALENDAR FOR THE YEAR...
The Program Committee chaired by our Anti-Basileus, Ina Dorman, and her committee has set the following calendar for the year..
JANUARY - TARGET - Black Family - Economic Empowerment Activity - MLK Parade
Activity - Mardi Gras Ball (1/30/99) 4
FEBRUARY - TARGET - The Arts - Black History Month Activities
MARCH - TARGET - Economic Empowerment
Activity - Founders’ Day Undergraduate Week
APRIL - TARGET - Health & Wellness
Activity - NBLIC - Involvement with community Health Awareness issues - Blood Drive - Red Cross
MAY - TARGET - Education Activity — AKA Scholarship Reception - B-Con
JUNE - TARGET - Education Activity — Project SEND (National project)
Activity - Regional Conference
JULY - TARGET - Leadership Seminar
AUGUST - TARGET - Global Dollar Days - Education Activity - Economic Seminar (Soror Billie K. Rayford) Activity - Back to School Activity
SEPTEMBER - TARGET - Black Family - Sisterly Relations Activity - Golden Senior Month Activity - Reactivation Activity
OCTOBER - TARGET- Membership - Black Family Activity - Intake Activity - Coat Drive
NOVEMBER - TARGET - Black Family - Health
Activity - Collecting & Donating Car Sets for safety
Activity - Thanksgiving Baskets
DECEMBER - TARGET - Sisterly Relations - ON TRACK (National Signature Program) Activity — Secret Soror
Activity - AKAcademy (Mentor student 3-6 grade)
Anti-Basileus Ina Dorman, is asking that all Sorors make a concerted effort to participate and support in the numerous activities and events that already exist within the community. All of our program targets will be met many times over with full participation from Sorors.
Soror Ina said, “Let’s Not Forget the Ties that Bind”.
A MATTER OF
PRIORITIES:
MAKING TIME TO GET INVOLVED !!
Theta Theta Omega Chapter Members we have made a definite commitment to meet all of our Targets. Let’s get busy for AKA !!!
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Alpha Kappa Alpha Sorority, Inc. Theta Theta Omega Chapter Hodegos Report March, 1999
BIRTHDA Y WISHES
Theta Theta Omega
Soror Margaret Crawford (3/11)
Soror Patti Hester (3/28)
Soror Helen Jenkins (3/21)
ANNIVERSARIES
Soror Barbara and Honey Do A. Luis ’Tony" LeBron (3/25)
CONDOLENCES
We extend condolences to Soror Kaweeda Adams on the passing of her aunt, Mrs. Bonds of Detroit, Michigan.
WEDDING BELLS
Soror Amanda Oliphant and Derick McWilliams March 27,1999 at 10:30 a.m.
Second Baptist Church
500 W. Madison
Las Vegas, Nevada 89106
Soror Clair and Honey Do James Hart along with Mr. & Mrs. Elton Ford proudly announce the marriage of their daughter, Monice Channel Ford to Mr. Martin Luther Norris on Saturday, February 27,1999 at the Rio Hotel in Las Vegas. Soror Dorothy Earle is the proud grandmother of the bride. Theta Theta Omega Chapter wishes Monice and Martin a lifetime of happiness.
VISITING SORORS - February 6, 1999 Meeting
Soror Bennie Ragland
Alpha Ro Omega Chapter
Detroit, Ml
Guest of Soror Frances Perry
Soror Pamela Thompson Delta Omega Chapter Petersburg, Virginia
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WELCOME
We welcome Soror Pamela Thompson to Theta Theta Omega. Soror Pamela is a teacher in the Clark County School District.
SECRETSOROR
Please remember your secret soror.
SISTERLY RELATIONS ACTIVITY - MARCH 20, 1999
On Saturday, March 20, 1999 at 8:00 p.m., the play, Fences, written by Black playwright August Wilson is being performed at the Community College of Southern Nevada Performing Arts Center. Group rate is $9/person with a 15 ticket minimum. If you are interested in participating in this Sister Relations activity, please see Soror Billie Rayford.
KUDOS
Soror Sharon Savage is the Entertainment Writer for Soul of the City. Her articles can be viewed on the internet at www.soulofthccitv.com. Soror Sharon, we are so proud of you!
Honey Do Dr. William "Bill" Sullivan (Soror Sherri Blanchard Sullivan) was honored at the 2nd Annual TRIO Dinner for twenty years of service to UNLV, TRIO Programs, and the Clark County community. We are all aware of the Honey Do Bill’s leadership in the Upward Bound program at UNLV. Way to go Dr. Bill!
THOUGHT OF THE MONTH
EIGHT GIFTS THAT DO NOT COST A CENT
1)
THE GIFT OF LISTENING...
But you must REALLY listen.
No interrupting, no daydreaming, no planning your response. Just listening.
2)
THE GIFT OF AFFECTION...
Be generous with appropriate hugs, kisses, pats on the back and handholds.
Let these small actions demonstrate the love you have for family and friends.
3)
THE GIFT OF LA UGHTER...
Clip cartoons.
Share articles and funny stories.
Your gift will say, "I love to laugh with you."
4)
THE GIFT OF A WRITTEN NOTE... It can be a simple 7
'Thanks for the help" note or a full sonnet A brief, handwritten note may be remembered for a lifetime, and may even change a life.
5) THE GIFT OF A COMPLIMENT...
A simple and sincere, "You look great in pink and green," "You did a super job. or 'That was a wonderful meal" can make someone's day.
6)
THE GIFT OF A FA VOR...
Every day, go out of your way to do something kind.
7)
THE GIFT OF SOLITUDE...
There are times when we want nothing better than to be left alone.
Be sensitive to those times and give the gift of solitude to others.
8)
THE GIFT OF A CHEERFUL
DISPOSITION...
The easiest way to feel good is to extend a kind word to someone, really it's not that hard to say, Hello or Thank You.
Friends are very rare jewels indeed. They make you smile and encourage you to succeed. They lend an ear; they share a word of praise; and they always want to open their hearts to us.
Respectfully submitted,
Soror Billie Rayford, Hodegos
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THAT EVERY DAY IN THE STATE OF NEVADA A WOMAN DIES OF BREAST CANCER?
3.
THAT OVER 175,000 WOMEN IN THE UNITED STATES WILL BE DIAGNOSED WITH BREAST CANCER (1 EVERY 3 MINUTES) AND 43,300 WILL DIE (1 EVERY 12 MINUTES)?
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THAT 1300 MEN WILL DEVELOP BREAST CANCER AND 400 WILL DIE FROM THE DISEASE?
HAVE YOU OR A FAMILY MEMBER HAD BREAST CANCER OR DO YOU KNOW SOMEONE WHO HAS?
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IF THE ANSWERS TO THESE QUESTIONS ARE “YES”, THEN PLEASE SEE SOROR DOROTHY JOHNSON, TO SEE WHAT YOU CAN CONTRIBUTE TO NBLIC (THE NATIONAL BLACK LEADERSHIP INITIATIVE ON CANCER, INC.)
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National Minority Cancer Awareness Week Celebration
The National Black Leadership Initiative on Cancer, Inc. (NBLIC), a program of the National Cancer Institute (NCI), and the Nevada State Health Division will present a health forum on April 19-20, 1999 at the Golden Nugget Hotel and Casino in honor of the Las Vegas Coalition’s fifth anniversary and to alert the community of the national health information holiday.
Louis W. Sullivan, MD, Principal Investigator of the National Office of the NBLIC will hold his quarterly Steering Committee Meeting on Monday morning, April 19, 1999. At 1.00 PM, the Las Vegas Coalition will hold their Fifth Anniversary Luncheon at which Diahann Carroll, Singer/Actress has been invited.
Lillian McMorris, Public Service Director, KWU-TV5 will appear on the program along with Louis W. Sullivan, MD, former US Secretary of Health and President, Morehouse School of Medicine, Atlanta, GA.
Also appearing on the program will be Harold Freeman, MD, former National President of the American Cancer Society, Eastern Regional Director of NBLIC and Director of Medicine, Harlem Hospital, New York, NY and Terry Mason, MD, Mid-western Regional Director of NBLIC, University of Chicago and a successful urologist, Chicago, IL.
Tuesday, April 20, 1999 will be an all day program which will include the following National NBLIC lecturers:
Otis Brawley, MD, National Cancer Institute, Bethesda, MD;
Frank Jackson, Director, Special Populations, NCI, Bethesda, MD;
Oscar E. Streeter, MD, Western Regional Vice-Director of NBLIC, Associate Professor, University Southern California, Los Angeles, CA
Local physicians will also lecture including:
John A. Ellerton, MD, Associate Professor and Prinicipal Investigator, University of Nevada School of Medicine;
Raul T. Meoz, MD, Associate Principal Investigator, So. Nevada Cancer Research Center and Trudy A. Larson, MD, Associate Dean of Primary Care Education, University of Nevada Medical School.
Christopher Minott, MD, Medical Advisor to the Las Vegas Coalition and David V. Shapira, MBChB, FCRP, Senior Associate Dean and Professor of Medicine, University of Nevada, School of Medicine will serve as moderators for the two day session.
Registration fee is $70.00 for the two-day session and continuing education credits will be available to physicians, nurses, social workers and others who attend both days of the conference. No exceptions will be made. Scholarships will be available to persons over 50 years of age who are cancer survivors or a high-risk relative.
Dorothy M. Johnson, RN, BSN founder and chair of the Las Vegas Coalition says this conference is being held to raise African American’s awareness of services available to them in times of need and to alert health personnel of the special needs of African Americans. For further information, call 655-3752.
The Las Vegas Coalition was spearheaded by Theta Theta Omega Chapter, Alpha Kappa Alpha Sorority, Inc. in 1994 and its members continue to be active in this service to the community. The Coalition has been approved by the IRS as a non-profit organization.
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(VA Mrs. Bonds passed in Detroit, Michigan. Mrs. Bonds is the aunt
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ON THE MEND
Soror Helen S. Cotton is still making great strides in her rehabilitation and is recovering. Soror Lois Tabor Ice is back on target. She is getting around much better and is feeling better each day. Soror Lois sends a big thank you to all the Sorors for thinking of her.
MEMORIAL SERVICES...
Ivy Beyond the Wall Memorial Services will be held for Soror Janice Clark on Sunday, March 7, 1999, 2:00 p.m. at Bunker Funeral Home (927 Las Vegas Blvd, Las Vegas, NV.) Attire for Sorors: White.
Sorors, SERVICES WILL BEGIN PROMPTLY AT 2:00 P.M.
Please plan to attend
FOUNDERS DAY.....
Chairperson, Kaweeda Adams and her committee members are finalizing plans for our Founders’ Day Luncheon. Soror Kaweeda would like for all Sorors to please be prepared to pay your Founders’ Day assessment on Saturday, March 6th (Sorority meeting). The Golden Nugget Hotel is requesting a final luncheon plate count before the Friday, March 12th.
If you need any additional tickets, please see Soror Clair Hart. Soror Clair will make a “Name at the Door List” for Sorors that are able to sell tickets to guest without the actual ticket. Your guest will be allowed to give their name at the door.
Our Luncheon will be held jointly with Kappa Xi and will serve as one of their events in recognition of Undergraduate Week.
THEME: Blazing New Trails DATE: Sunday, March 14, 1999 TIME: 1:00 Rededication
Ceremony 2:00 - Luncheon Begin ATTIRE: Dais-White Sorors - Pink or Green
1999 SPEAKER: Lynnette McDonald
“SORORS IN THE NEWS”
Sorors Carolyn Parks, Willa Bywaters White, Gwendolyn Gates- Bartlett, Marian Burns, Dr. & Mrs. Lee Rayford, witnessed the beautiful marriage ceremony of Monice & Martin Norris. Monice is the daughter of Soror Clair Hart and Honey-Do Jim Hart and the granddaughter of Soror Dorothy Earle. Very lovely, elegant affair.
Abriana Foster, the 9 !4 year old Granddaughter of Soror Barbara Kirkland, sang a solo ( WE SHALL OVERCOME) for the beginning of the Communion Ceremony on Sunday, February 21,1999 at St. James The Apostle Catholic Church where she is a member. Abriana received a standing ovation. SHE WAS GREAT !’ (Maybe a budding Recording Artist ?) I must add, the church was packed with standing room only. CONGRATULATIONS Abriana for being brave enough to stand in front of a packed church and sing all the verses to WE SHALL OVERCOME without a hitch I!!!!!!!!!! (We know, she takes after her Nana, Soror Barbara).
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Soror Carolyn Parks will be ordering the newest Manual of Standard Procedures and Constitution and By-Laws. Both copies can be purchased for $5.00.
Our Sorority Meeting Facilitator for the Month of March is: Anti- Basileus, Soror Ina Dorman. Soror Ina will cover the Program Committee Duties and Responsibilities in her presentation.
Sorority meeting will be held March 6, 1999, 3:00 P.M. at St. James Catholic Imani Hall.
Hostesses: Sorors Ina Dorman and Soror Shirnice Dorman-Villano
Executive Board meeting will be held March 17, 1999. Hostess: Soror Kaweeda Adams
SECRET SORORS ARE REALLY WITH THE PLAN THIS YEAR ! It is not too late to participate. See Soror Billie K. Rayford for more information. She is the “Keeper of the Secrets” for 1999. And she is not uttering a word to anyone. I even tried to Bribe her....still would not work. Soror Billie is realllllly “button-up”.
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AKAnomics March Report
ECONOMICS WORKSHOP
March 6, 1999 2 p.m.
Guest Speaker - Eric Adams
Topic - Credit
Please plan to attend this very informative workshop and support Honey Do Adams as he shares valuable information designed to assist us in becoming better informed consumers.
BLACK DOLLARS DAYS
Black Dollars Days will be observed during the month of March. Sorors are asked to log the dollars spent with African-American businesses. More information will be shared at the March sorority meeting.
COALITION OF BLACK INVESTORS TOUR
The Coalition of Black Investors is hosting a series of “Road to Prosperity" workshops in major cities across the US. The west coast workshop is sheduled for June 12, 1999 in Los Angeles. Brochures outlining the content of the workshops have been requested for dissemination at the sorority meeting. Details to follow.
STOCK OF THE MONTH
February Stock Winner - Soror Janet Rhoden won one share of stock and enrollment in the Johnson & Johnson Corporation’s dividend reinvestment plan. Congratulations Soror Janet.
March Stock of the Month - This company operates in 35 countries. This #2 food company (behind Philip Morris) has three main segments. Its largest is the refrigerated food group which are marketed under brands including Butterball and Parkay. Its grocery/diversified products unit shelf-stable foods and is #1 in US frozen foods. Brands include Healthy Choice, Hunt’s, Slim Jim, and Marie Callender’s. The food inputs and ingredients unit, #1 in US flour milling, distributes fertilizers, seeds, crop protection chemicals, food ingredients, and grain-based products worldwide. 52 Week High $34.38 52 Week Low $22.56
Close on 2/26/99 $30.25/share
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Tea Rose Talk Recipes
Peach Delight
1 6 oz. pkg. Peach Jello
1 pint vanilla ice cream
1 12 oz. can pineapple tidbits
Yz - % cup chopped nuts
Drain juice from pineapple tidbits into measuring cup; add enough water to make one (1) cup. Pour liquid into saucepan and bring to a boil then remove from heat. Dissolve peach jello in hot water. Stir in vanilla ice cream. As mixture begins to thicken, add pineapple tidbits and nuts. Place in 8 x 8 inch pan or in your favorite mold. Refrigerate until firm. Makes a refreshing salad or dessert.
Mocha Pecan Triangles
Combine in mixing bowl:
1
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2
teaspoons instant coffee
Yz teaspoon soda
Yz teaspoon salt 1 tablespoon cocoa 1/3 cup shortening 2/3 cup milk
1 egg
Yz cup finely chopped pecans
Beat at medium speed 2 minutes. Spread in greased 13x9 - inch pan. Bake at 350 for 20 to 25 minutes, or until it springs back when touched lightly in the center.
Cool and frost. Cut into triangles. Frost with Coffee Icing.
Coffee Icing:
Combine 2 tablespoons butter, 1 teaspoon instant coffee, 1 Yz cups powdered sugar, 1 to 2 tablespoons hot water, beating until smooth and of spreading consistency.
Bon Appetit!
Soror Billie Rayford
Soror Belisa Brownlee is chairing Theta Theta Omega’s Africa Project. As a part of the Black Family, the “Africa Shoe Box” Project will be one where we will fill Shoe Boxes with items such as pens, pencils, and school supplies. Soror Belissa is asking Sorors to bring shoe boxes to sorority meeting and bring some items so we can start the project off with a bang. Sorors you may give cash if you so desire. The items can then be purchased in bulk and this will also help with the cost of shipping. The AKAteens will be handling the first mailing for the Shoe Box project. Soror Belisa will handle the mailings in April and June. Kappa Xi Sorors will also be participating.
Our Sorority meeting for March will be held jointly with Kappa Xi Undergraduate Chapter.
SKEE WEE TALKNOTES FROM THE GRADUATE ADVISOR By Soror Sharon Savage
The undergraduates of Kappa Xi held their Chapter Rush on February 28,1999 at 3:00 P.M. in the Moyer Student Union of UNLV. Six dynamic prospective candidates completed their paperwork. Theta Theta Omega chapter members in attendance were: Basileus, Soror
Jackie Hall, Soror Willa Bywaters White, Soror E.Lavonne Lewis, Soror Belisa Brownlee, Soror Carolyn Parks, Soror Marian Burns, Soror Jacki’ Brown & Graduate Advisor, Soror Sharon Savage.
Kappa Xi Basileus, Wilisha Moore and her Anti-Basileus Shawna McNair presentations were superb. A very impressive reception followed.
Kappa Xi will participate with Theta Theta Omega in our Founders’ Day activities on March 14, 1999. This will culminate Undergraduate week.
TIME TO PLANT YOUR GARDEN........
It’s time to plant your garden. As you plant, may I suggest the following rules for your garden planting:
PLANT three rows of squash:
1.
Squash gossip
2.
Squash criticism
3.
Squash indifference
PLANT three rows of peas:
1.
Purity
2.
Patience
3.
Perseverance
PLANT six rows of lettuce:
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Let us be unselfish & loyal
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Let us be faithful to duty
3.
Let us search the scriptures
4.
Let us not be weary in welldoing
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Let us be obedient in all things
6.
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NO GARDEN is complete without TURNIPS:
1.
Turn up for church, prayer service, and Bible study
2.
Turn up with a smile, even when things are difficult
3.
Turn up with determination to do your best for AKA causes
After planting, may you “Grow in Grace” and in the knowledge of our Lord remembering that “The Art of Living is not merely to Look, but to See, not merely to Listen, but to Hear; not merely to Experience, but to Enjoy”.
BLACK FAMILIES INTERNET SITE.......
Due to the successful and vigorous emergence of African Americans on the World Wide Web, Cox Interactive Media has launched a web site called “Black Families”. This site is dedicated to contemporary issues that will “keep African American families whole”. It includes such relevant information as: Family Finance, Family Relationships, Parenting, and other general categories such as health & fitness, people & chat, hobbies, & sports.
The recognition of the’ influx of African Americans on thfe vzeb and * our presence is being valued, felt & known.
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All internet users are urged to bookmark this site. Your participation in making this one of the most formidable websites dedicated to the issues that affect,
impact, and mean the most to African Americans will surely enrich and strengthen our quality of life. We can’t act wisely unless we are informed wisely.
The URL is:
http:/Avww. blackfami 1 ies.com
THE PSYCHIATRIC HOTLINE........
Hello 1 Welcome to the Psychiatric Hotline!!!
If you are Obsessive-Compulsive, press 1 repeatedly.
If you are Co-dependent, please ask someone to press 2 for you.
If you have Multiple Personalities, press 3,4,5 & 6.
If you are Paranoid, we know who you are. Stay on the line so we can trace your call.
If you are Delusional, press 7, and your call will transferred to the Mother Ship.
If you are Schizophrenic, listen carefully, and a small voice will tell you which number to press.
If you are Dyslexic, press 96969696.
If you have Nervous Disorder, please fidget with the Pound button until a rep comes on the line.
If you have Amnesia, press 8 and state your name,address, phone number, date of birth, mother’s
A maiden name.
7 Y If you have short-term Memory Loss, please try your call again later.
If you have Low Self-Esteem, just hang up. None of our representatives would take to someone like you !! 16
SOMETHING TO THINK ABOUT
ALWAYS COUNT YOUR BLESSINGS...
SHOULD YOU FIND IT HARD TO GET TO SLEEP TONIGHT; JUST REMEMBER THE HOMELESS FAMILY WHO HAS NO BED TO LIE IN.
SHOULD YOU FIND YOURSELF STUCK IN TRAFFIC; DON’T DESPAIR, THERE ARE PEOPLE IN THIS WORLD FOR WHOM DRIVING IS AN UNHEARD OF PRIVILEGE.
SHOULD YOU HAVE A BAD DAY AT WORK; THINK OF THE MAN WHO HAS BEEN OUT OF WORK FOR THE LAST 3 MONTHS.
SHOULD YOU DESPAIR OVER A RELATIONSHIP GONE BAD; THINK OF THE PERSON WHO HAS NEVER KNOW WHAT IT’S LIKE TO LOVE AND BE LOVED IN RETURN.
SHOULD YOU GRIEVE THE PASSING OF ANOTHER WEEKEND; THINK OF THE WOMAN IN SOME THIRD WORLD COUNTRY, WORKING 12 HOURS A DAY, 7 DAYS A WEEK, FOR $15 TO FEED HER FAMILY.
SHOULD YOUR CAR BREAK DOWN, LEAVING YOU MILES AWAY FROM ASSISTANCE; THINK OF THE PARAPLEGIC WHO WOULD LOVE THE OPPORTUNITY TO TAKE THAT WALK.
SHOULD YOU NOTICE A NEW GRAY HAIR IN THE MIRROR; THINK OF THE CANCER PATIENT IN CHEMO WHO WISHES SHE HAD HAIR TO EXAMINE.
SHOULD YOU FIND YOURSELF AT A LOSS AND PONDERING; WHAT IS LIFE ALL ABOUT, WHAT IS MY PURPOSE? BE THANKFUL, THERE ARE THOSE WHO DIDN’T LIVE LONG ENOUGH TO GET THE OPPORTUNITY.
SHOULD YOU FIND YOURSELF THE VICTIM OF OTHER PEOPLE’S BITTERNESS, IGNORANCE, SMALLHES&OR INSECURITIES^.
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Never judge a book by its cover. At times we tend to put people in a category because of the way we see them. We don’t take the time to get to know them well. The most well put together person on the outside may be falling apart on the inside. The person you view as not having it together on the outside maybe the most intelligent, creative person you will ever meet.
I would like all of us to get to know one another on a deeper level. This can be accomplished by serving on a committee with other sorors you don’t know as well as others. It can be accomplished by attending sorority sponsored events and interacting with a sorors in the chapter.
Sorors, we should step out of our comfort zone and try something new; be a hostess with a group of newly reactivated or transfer sorors, or serve on a committee you have never served on before.
All of these things will help each one of us to grow as sisters and you may make a new friend.
I want everyone to feel needed and included in the coming year. Let’s make an effort to stretch ourselves. I can assure you that you will find a new bridge partner, computer geek, reading fanatic, or craft person to add to your collection of friends.
Sisterly,
Soror Jackie
CONTINUING WORDS FROM THE BASILEUS...
The yearly sorority report will be mailed on January 20, 2000. All committee chairs are asked to submit a year end report by December 15, 1999, at the Executive Committee meeting. The report should include everything that has taken place in 1999. Any events scheduled after December 15, 1999, and before January 1, 2000 should be included in this report.
AKA TEEN TEA..
The AKATeen Tea was held on September 25, 1999 at the North Las Vegas Library. In attendance were ten young ladies interested in becoming AKATeens. Sorors in attendance were: Soror Jackie Hall, Belisa Brownlee, Amanda McWilliams, and Lisa McNeil. The young ladies were given a fact sheet and other handouts about the AKATEEN program. Soror Brownlee lead the group in an ice breaker and introduction session. Soror McNeil had the young ladies acting out various animals and inanimate objects. This game required creativity and team work. Sorors Amanda, Belisa and Jackie, acted as judges for
the game. Prizes were also given out.
The next AKATEEN meeting will be held on Saturday, October 9, 1999, at the North Las Vegas Library. We will begin at 1:30 p.m. Each young lady has been asked to bring a friend. If there is a young lady that a soror would like to recommend as an AKATEEN, you can send or bring your recommendation(s) to the next meeting on October 9th. Sorors we need more committee members to work with this group.
Sisterly,
Soror Jackie
WORDS FROM THE EDITOR....
Dear Sorors,
Have you asked yourself, the same question that I have?
What is the “Millennium”? What is “Y2-K”? Why is the concept or the word so heavily laden with symbolic and/or psychological powers?
What effect will the new “Millennium” have on African Americans? Or is it just “another year”?
I thought about it and I realized that this is a time in our lives that each of us should celebrate the coming of the new year, the new century, the new millennium. When you really, really, really, think seriously about it; even with “time” on our side, we will NEVER ever live to see the dawning of another century come in.
Then in retrospect, over the past years up to the present time, each of us have witnessed the lost of love ones, family & friends. The witnessing of this simple transition from mortal to immortal does indeed cause us to question your purpose in life. We find ourselves running from
one place to another, going to a meeting every night, if not every other night. Are we ready to resolve to slow the pace, prioritize and focus on what really matters in life AND what is important in your lives? God, Family, & Friends in that order?
Have we as sorors forgotten the purpose of our journey as members of the FIRST and the FINEST sorority.. “SERVICE TO ALL MANKIND”? Our Basileus is inviting each of us to embrace, uplift and help build for the future of Theta Theta Omega Chapter. We can work together to create a new agenda that will benefit the communities. Our founders fifty years ago had the courage to stand strong together, organize locally and nationally and move forward positively for the good of the sorority. We as sorors have grown and benefited from a long and glorious legacy built on love, faith and commitment. As sorors we must fulfil our promise to serve, enhance and uplift our communities. We are the carriers of merit and culture. We must continue to serve all mankind. We are the Vine that Binds
Yours in Sisterhood, Soror Marian Burns
Twenty-four things
TO REMEMBER....
1.
Your presence is a present to the world.
2.
You’re unique and one of a kind.
3.
Your life can be what you want it to be.
4.
Take the days just one at a time.
5.
Count your blessings, not your troubles.
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You’ll make it through whatever comes along.
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Within you are so many answers.
8.
Understand, have courage, be strong.
9.
Don’t put limits on yourself.
10.
So many dreams are waiting to be realized.
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Decisions are too important to leave to chance.
12.
Reach for your peak, your goal, and your prize.
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Nothing wastes more energy than worrying.
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The longer one carries a problem, the heavier it gets.
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Don’t take things too seriously.
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Live a life of serenity, not a life of regrets.
17.
Remember that a lot goes forever.
18.
Remember that a little love goes a long way.
19.
Remember that friendship is a wise investment.
20.
Life’s treasures are people - together.
21.
Realize that nothing is ever too late.
22.
Have health and hope and happiness.
23.
Do ordinary things in an extraordinary way.
24.
Take the time to wish upon a star.
And don’t ever forget - for even a day - how very special you are.
CALLING ALL SORORITY “SINGERS” & “BLENDERS”
Theta Theta Omega Music Director, Soror Janet Rhoden would like for all sorors interested in becoming a member of the Theta Theta Choir to please join her in the choir area of the church on Saturday, October 2, 1999, at 2:00 P.M. There will be a short rehearsal before sorority meeting. She is asking everyone that can “carry” a tune to come.
$ FINANCES $
MONEY, MONEY, MONEY.... ALL CHAPTER DUES FOR THE YEAR 2000 MUST BE PAID NO LATER JANUARY 19, 2000. THERE WILL BE NO EXCEPTIONS.
Again, Sorors with outstanding debts from assessments must be paid as soon as possible or make arrangements with the Pecunious Grammateus to resolve these issues. Dues for the year 2000 will not be mailed until all of your past financial obligations are met.
MEMBERSHIP INTAKE ...
that will be participating in the luncheons and staying at the hotel be prepared to pay these fees on Saturday, October 2, 1999 at the sorority meeting.
All sorors planning to attend Membership Intake must attend the Membership Intake Process workshop which will be held on Saturday during sorority meeting.
Sorors are needed to signed up for History committee, Music committee, Hospitality & Social welfare committee and Sisterly Relations committee.
Please see Soror Carolyn Parks or Soror Clair Hart for the sign up sheet.
ATTIRE FOR MEMBERSHIP INTAKE PROCESS..
This information is taken directly from the New Membership Intake Program Booklet.
FRIDAY NIGHT ORIENTATION
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Candidates wear conservative BLACK dress or suit
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Sorors wear conservative WHITE dress or suit
Membership Intake will be held on October 15-17, 1999 at the AmeriSuites Hotel. Membership chairs are asking that all sorors
SATURDAY MORNING PLEDGE CERMONIES
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Candidates wear conservative BLACK dress of suit
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Sorors wear conservative WHITE dress or suit
SATURDAY WORKSHOPS
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Candidates and Sorors wear comfortable BUSINESS attire (absolutely no jeans, sweats, and/or tennis shoes
SATURDAY NIGHT INITIATION
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Candidates wear BLACK (first degree; WHITE all other degrees
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Sorors wear WHITE
SUNDAY MORNING FINAL VOWS
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Candidates and Sorors wear white (no hats or large jewelry)
Identical clothing is NOT to be required. Pants and Hats ARE NOT acceptable attire. Any colored accessories should be tasteful. Please refrain from large or elaborate earrings and other jewelry.
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TO PAY DUES, MONIES..Soror Marian Burns (648-3903)
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FOR A CHANGE OF ADDRESS..Soror(s) Billie K. Rayford, (645-1105) Marian Burns (648-3903)
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NOTIFICATION OF A SOROR’S WELL BEING..Soror Billie K. Rayford (645-1105)
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NOTIFICATION OF A DEATH OF A SOROR, AND/OR FAMILY MEMBER..Soror Billie K.
Rayford (645-1105)
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INFORMATION FOR THE NEWSLETTER..Soror Marian Burns (648-3903)
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AKA CONNECTIONS..Soror Willa L. White (896-4282)
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UNDERGRADUATE INFORMATION..Soror Sharon Savage (254-4156)
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TELEPHONE TREE..Soror Billie K. Rayford (645-1105)
Sorors I ask that you please call me, email, come to see me, or whatever, with your information for the newsletter as soon as you know what you are inputting. I will dress it up if you just give me a hint as to what you want.
“WHO DO I CALL” ?
REMEMBER SORORS....
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COMMUNICATIONS..Soror
Jackie Hall, Basileus (452-8651)
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TO REQUEST A CHECK..Soror Carolyn Parks (648-9106)
GROWING OLD IS MANDATORY; GROWING UP IS OPTIONAL !!
THE BEST WAY TO FORGET ALL YOUR TROUBLES IS TO WEAR A PAIR OF TIGHT SHOES...